The root of any kind of achievement is belief. Whoever believes that all things are possible will see them coming to fulfillment. Many people today lack purpose of who they desire to be and this has hindered their achievement and progress in life. Until they define their purpose in life and create it, striving towards excellence in life and career will only be a mirage.
One cannot consider himself a failure when he has not given up trying. Hence, every disappointment and disaster should be seen as a lesson to learn from. Whoever wishes to succeed should be willing to fail. No wonder the popular saying that “success is on the other side of failure”.
At one time or the other, we have heard stories of people with humble beginning and extremely poor background who are currently owners of empires. Have you considered how they achieve the present huge feat, moving from nothing to something? Honestly speaking, the fact remains that THEY NEVER GAVE UP.
These are the type of people who visualized what they wanted long before they had tangible resources. Despite their current realities and sorry state, they could still imagine the reality they wanted to occupy. Have a positive orientation and believe that if you can think it, it can come to life, and if someone has reached that height, you too can reach it. Do you even know that the words you speak to yourself can influence your life and destiny? It can be positive or negative wise. What you speak to yourself can create your reality.
Your utterances can propel you towards success or limits you to what you can achieve. Negative utterances will always put up excuses (such as environment, lack of funds etc.), thus, limiting your reality.
Words like “I can’t” and “It’s impossible” should never be found in your vocabulary, as they dis-empower individuals, program them to halt a process, sabotage chances of success and program them for failure.
When someone says ‘I can’t’ or ‘it’s not possible,’ so will it be, because he or she will never make an attempt to try something outside his or her limited mindset. With the right mindset, anything whatsoever is possible. By believing more in yourself and capabilities, you will be moving closer to achieving your dreams and when failure occurs, you learn from it, change something and believe again!
Becoming all you desire to be can be achieved in the following ways:
Invest In Your Own Self
What do you spend your time on? Do you have priorities? Do you spend significant time to making yourself a better person? Do you read books? Are there skills you can boast of?
Many people are often seen sleeping, watching the television or dreaming irrelevant things during their leisure time. They continue to make wishes without taking a single action. Successful and Unsuccessful people differ in the way they invest their time. If you desire to achieve a ground breaking success in this competitive world, you MUST build yourself to be better than you were yesterday.
The role of planning in life cannot be under-estimated. A popular saying says ‘if you fail to plan, then you are planning to fail’. Have a plan. What if your plan doesn’t work, what should you do? Improve on it and make it stronger.
You need to endure and keep on pushing. Remember the saying that Rome was not built in a day. Life’s struggles should make you stronger and not weaken you.
Put An End To Procrastination
Procrastination is a time stealer and dream killer without you realizing it. You can overcome it by becoming self-disciplined. You should act as if your life depends on it.
Another way to overcome procrastination is to always have a compelling reason to get things done even when you don’t feel like doing it. Consider whatever you do very important. Your biggest motivation at times is your motive. Take action and get a reason for doing what you are doing and never stop until you achieve your aim.
Develop A Mental Toughness That Never Quits
Determine that you can, and you will. In order to accomplish this, you need to change your mindset and erase every form of self-doubt. You should never underestimate yourself as you have been created with gifts, a purpose and opportunities to better off.
The greatest obstacle to a man’s success is not his environment but himself. Don’t quit the race to success. However, if you feel like quitting, always remember why you started. Remember the saying that ‘no cross, no crown and no glory without a struggle’. This is why you should always surround yourself with people that can take you higher.
Desire to Be Courageous
Many people today have lost courage and have allowed themselves to be dominated by fear.
They fear the unknown and are also frightened by the possibility of not reaching their desires goals. What happens later is that they will lack motivation, making them to start creating unnecessary excuses, denying themselves the chance for greatness.
Get Yourself A Life Coach
Bob Nardelli sometimes said that it is impossible for people to reach their MAXIMUM CAPABILITIES in the absence of a coach.
Being coached affords you the opportunity of solving issues ranging from relationships, emotions and personal matters. You will be propelled to realize your potentials and understand yourself fully. In short, the best version of yourself can be achieved via the influence of a life coach.
Source: Distrita Own Experience